Mother's Day

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A time to reflect on all that we have learned from our Moms, all that we have taught our children, and all that we have learned from any woman that had a positive impact on your life.   May you pause and reflect on how lucky we are to have been loved and to love.

Thank you Mom and thank you Heather.  I am truly blessed.  I love you both  - always and forever.

The attached picture is precious to me.  It shows four generations of love - my Grandmother holding my Mom, my Mom holding me, and me holding Heather.  





"Mothers hold their children's hands for a short while, but their hearts forever." 

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