Mother's Day 2019

Growing up I used to spend Mother's day with my Mom, Grandmother, and Aunt Ruthie.  Aunt Ruthie never had children but she was like a mother to all of us.  All three of these strong, independent, generous, and loving women made sure that each and every holiday was special - including their Mother's Day.  We would gather and eat a fabulous meal that they prepared - the house was filled with laughter and we simply  enjoyed our time together.

They never wanted to go out on Mother's Day - they cherished those special times to nurture us. Staying at home also guaranteed eating at that infamous and fabulous kid's table and running around the house playing hide and seek.

Ever since my Mom passed, I  have wondered whether it was selfish of us to let them do all the work on their special day.   The commercialization of Mother's day makes us think that Moms need to be spoiled with flowers, gifts, card, brunches, spa days, etc.

Don't get me wrong - I love all of those, but  I now realize that Mother's day is a great time day to reflect on the love that I received from Mom, Grandma, and Aunt Ruthie and to cherish my most precious gift - my sweet Heather.

Happy Mother's Day in Heaven Mom - oh what I wouldn't do for just one more day.......

And to my sweet Heather.......I am so proud and honored to be your Mom, your friend, your confidant, and your advocate.  

 I am truly blessed to have been loved and to love.

The attached pictures are precious to me.  It shows four generations of love - my Grandmother holding my Mom, my Mom holding me, and me holding Heather.  There are also a few gems.

xo
Lisa

"Mothers hold their children's hands for a short while, but their hearts forever."